A Father’s Day Poem

I had a copy of this poem framed and hanging in my office. I wish I could say I lived it out consistently, but I am proud of all three of my sons, all of whom are also fine fathers.

A careful man I want to be,
   A little fellow follows me;
I do not dare to go astray,
   For fear he’ll go the self-same way.

I cannot once escape his eyes.
   Whate’er he sees me do, he tries;
Like me he says he’s going to be,
   The little chap who follows me.

He thinks that I am good and fine,
   Believes in every word of mine;
The base in me he must not see,
   The little chap who follows me.

I must remember as I go,
   Through summer’s sun and winter’s snow;
I’m building for the years to be
   That little chap who follows me.

Poem by Rev. Claude Wisdom White, Sr., public domain.

Rev. Claude Wisdom White, Sr. (1891 – 1975) was born in Texas and lived there his entire life. We have been unable to find any further information about him. This poem is often said to have been written by an anonymous author, and there are two different versions of  it, but we believe Rev. White is the true author and this is the original version. Esteemed basketball coach John Wooden included it in his book, Coach Wooden’s Pyramid of Success, and it is said to have been one of his favorite poems.Your Daily Poem

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. (Ephesians 6.4, ESV)

A Man of the Word

Last Saturday I attended a one-day men’s conference led by Every Man a Warrior, a disciple-making tool for men I whole-heartedly endorse. I was able to take the two men I’m working with now with me.

I was impressed with their challenge in the third presentation:

Be a Level 7 Man of the Word

While familiar with the concept, I had not seen it presented like this:

  • Level 1: heard, listened to, forgot
  • Level 2: heard, kind of know, “I can look it up if I need to.”
  • Level 3: heard and studied, not applied (head knowledge)
  • Level 4: memorized, can quote, not applied (head knowledge)
  • Level 5: memorized, meditated, developing convictions and need to apply
  • Level 6: memorized, meditated, put into practice, reaped success, have a testimony about that verse
  • Level 7: memorized, meditated, put into practice, reaped success, began teaching Biblical truth to another

The key verse was James 1.25:

But the one who looks into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and perseveres, being no hearer who forgets but a doer who acts, he will be blessed in his doing. (ESV)

I like it, especially ending with Level 7. We don’t stop with out own growth, we pass it on:

What you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses entrust to faithful men, who will be able to teach others also. (2 Timothy 2.2, ESV)

It’s Juneteenth!

Juneteenth is the oldest internationally celebrated commemoration of the ending of slavery in the United States. Dating back to 1865, it was on June 19th that the Union soldiers, led by Major General Gordon Granger, landed at Galveston, Texas with news that the war had ended and that the enslaved were now free. Note that this was two and a half years after President Lincoln’s Emancipation Proclamation – which had become official January 1, 1863. The Emancipation Proclamation had little impact on the Texans due to the minimal number of Union troops to enforce the new Executive Order. However, with the surrender of General Lee in April of 1865, and the arrival of General Granger’s regiment, the forces were finally strong enough to influence and overcome the resistance.https://juneteenth.com/history/

Juneteenth has been a Federal Holiday since 2021, celebrated on the day. Setting captives free was part of Jesus’ mission:

And he came to Nazareth, where he had been brought up. And as was his custom, he went to the synagogue on the Sabbath day, and he stood up to read. And the scroll of the prophet Isaiah was given to him. He unrolled the scroll and found the place where it was written,

“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim liberty to the captives and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty those who are oppressed, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.” (Luke 4.16 – 19, ESV)

Amen.

Introduction to Lamentations

We’re still in the section of our readings known as the Major Prophets. There are five books: Isaiah, Jeremiah, Lamentations, Ezekiel, Daniel, but there are only four prophets! Lamentations is, simply:

All the warnings Jeremiah declared to the people about Jerusalem came true. The Babylonians invaded the nation, burned God’s temple, destroyed the city and took away the people. In Lamentations Jeremiah records five poems of sorrow for the fallen city. – From the NIV

Those of you who, like me, pay attention to numbers, notice that chapters 1, 2, 4, and 5 consist of 22 verses each. Chapter 3 is 66 verses, a multiple of 22. What’s going on? Chapters 1, 2, and 4 have this note appended in the NIV:

This chapter is an acrostic poem, the verses of which begin with the successive letters of the Hebrew alphabet.

Like Psalm 119, with 22 8-verse stanzas, each verse of which begins with the same Hebrew letter, of which there are 22 in the Hebrew alphabet, chapters 1 – 4 are acrostic poems. Chapter 3 is a bit different:

This chapter is an acrostic poem; the verses of each stanza begin with the successive letters of the Hebrew alphabet, and the verses within each stanza begin with the same letter. – from the NIV

I don’t read Hebrew, so I have to ask myself why the note that NIV appends to chapters 1,2 and 4 doesn’t appear in chapter 5. It’s 22 verses, also. Yep, 22 verses, but NOT an acrostic. Live and learn.

The first three verses of chapter 1 set the tone for the book:

How deserted lies the city, once so full of people! How like a widow is she, who once was great among the nations! She who was queen among the provinces has now become a slave.

Bitterly she weeps at night, tears are on her cheeks. Among all her lovers there is no one to comfort her. All her friends have betrayed her; they have become her enemies.

After affliction and harsh labor, Judah has gone into exile. She dwells among the nations; she finds no resting place. All who pursue her have overtaken her in the midst of her distress. (Lamentations 1.1 – 3, NIV)

“Judah has gone into exile,” just like Isaiah, Jeremiah, and even Moses, predicted.

All these curses will come on you. They will pursue you and overtake you until you are destroyed, because you did not obey the LORD your God and observe the commands and decrees he gave you. They will be a sign and a wonder to you and your descendants forever.

Because you did not serve the LORD your God joyfully and gladly in the time of prosperity, therefore in hunger and thirst, in nakedness and dire poverty, you will serve the enemies the LORD sends against you. He will put an iron yoke on your neck until he has destroyed you.

The LORD will bring a nation against you from far away, from the ends of the earth, like an eagle swooping down, a nation whose language you will not understand, a fierce-looking nation without respect for the old or pity for the young. (Deuteronomy 28.45 – 50, NIV)

Jeremiah closes with the exile

We close out Jeremiah today and start Lamentations tomorrow. Interestingly, after six chapters of mostly poetry, judgment on the nations, Jeremiah 52.1 – 27 closes with a reprise of 2 Kings 24.18 – 25.21, the fall of Jerusalem. It must be important to make it into the Bible twice!

Here are some excerpts:

Zedekiah was twenty-one years old when he became king, and he reigned eleven years in Jerusalem. His mother’s name was Hamutal the daughter of Jeremiah of Libnah. And he did what was evil in the sight of the LORD, according to all that Jehoiakim had done. For because of the anger of the LORD it came to the point in Jerusalem and Judah that he cast them out from his presence. And Zedekiah rebelled against the king of Babylon…The king of Babylon slaughtered the sons of Zedekiah before his eyes, and also slaughtered all the officials of Judah at Riblah. He put out the eyes of Zedekiah, and bound him in chains, and the king of Babylon took him to Babylon, and put him in prison till the day of his death. (Jeremiah 52.1 – 3, 10 – 11, ESV)

Zedekiah wasn’t spared; neither was the temple:

In the fifth month, on the tenth day of the month—that was the nineteenth year of King Nebuchadnezzar, king of Babylon—Nebuzaradan the captain of the bodyguard, who served the king of Babylon, entered Jerusalem. And he burned the house of the LORD, and the king’s house and all the houses of Jerusalem; every great house he burned down. And all the army of the Chaldeans, who were with the captain of the guard, broke down all the walls around Jerusalem. (Jeremiah 52.12 – 14, ESV)

And the people were taken to Babylon.

So Judah was taken into exile out of its land. (Jeremiah 52.27, ESV)

Then a bit of data:

This is the number of the people whom Nebuchadnezzar carried away captive: in the seventh year, 3,023 Judeans; in the eighteenth year of Nebuchadnezzar he carried away captive from Jerusalem 832 persons; in the twenty-third year of Nebuchadnezzar, Nebuzaradan the captain of the guard carried away captive of the Judeans 745 persons; all the persons were 4,600. (Jeremiah 52.28 – 30, ESV)

A warning for us all:

Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life. (Galatians 6.7, 8, ESV)

Shepherds

We wrap up Jeremiah this week. Beginning with chapter 46, it’s judgments on specific nations, ending with two long chapters on Babylon, 50 and 51. Interestingly, chapter 50 pauses right after announcing the judgment on Babylon with something about Israel:

“In those days and in that time, declares the LORD, the people of Israel and the people of Judah shall come together, weeping as they come, and they shall seek the LORD their God. They shall ask the way to Zion, with faces turned toward it, saying, ‘Come, let us join ourselves to the LORD in an everlasting covenant that will never be forgotten.’

“My people have been lost sheep. Their shepherds have led them astray, turning them away on the mountains. From mountain to hill they have gone. They have forgotten their fold. All who found them have devoured them, and their enemies have said, ‘We are not guilty, for they have sinned against the LORD, their habitation of righteousness, the LORD, the hope of their fathers.’ (Jeremiah 50.4 – 7, ESV)

Israel will repent, and the Lord faults the shepherds for leading them astray. I’m reminded of a section in Ezekiel that we’ll see later on this summer:

The word of the LORD came to me: “Son of man, prophesy against the shepherds of Israel; prophesy and say to them: ‘This is what the Sovereign LORD says: Woe to you shepherds of Israel who only take care of yourselves! Should not shepherds take care of the flock? You eat the curds, clothe yourselves with the wool and slaughter the choice animals, but you do not take care of the flock. You have not

  • strengthened the weak or
  • healed the sick or
  • bound up the injured. You have not
  • brought back the strays or
  • searched for the lost.

You have ruled them harshly and brutally. So they were scattered because there was no shepherd, and when they were scattered they became food for all the wild animals. My sheep wandered over all the mountains and on every high hill. They were scattered over the whole earth, and no one searched or looked for them. (Ezekiel 34.1 – 7, NIV, bulleted for clarity)

What should shepherds be doing? Take the list of what the bad shepherds weren’t doing:

  • strengthen the weak
  • heal the sick 
  • bind up the injured
  • bring back the strays 
  • search for the lost.

My mission is clear. My antenna should always be up for people who need strengthening, healing…finding. Paul encouraged the Thessalonians:

And we urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all. (1 Thessalonians 5.14, ESV)

Discernment is required, yes? If someone isn’t doing anything, is it because they’re idle and need admonishing, fainthearted and need encouraging, or weak and need strengthening?

My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they will never perish, and no one will snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all, and no one is able to snatch them out of the Father’s hand. – Jesus, John 10.27 – 29, ESV

Optimal versus Beneficial

I wrote about this three years ago, as did the source, Sahil Bloom. It’s worth revisiting.

Sahil Bloom reviewed his ABC goal system on June 3, 2026. It’s a good one:

For every daily system in your life, create three goals:

  • A Goal: Your most ambitious, perfect case.
  • B Goal: Your middle ground, baseline case.
  • C Goal: Your minimum viable level, downside case.

On days when you feel great, you hit your A Goal. On days when you feel ok, you hit your B Goal. On days when you feel bad, you hit your C Goal.

The key is:

It doesn’t have to be optimal for it to be beneficial. – Sahil Bloom

So many applications. I often advocate starting the daily time with God habit at 15 minutes. “15 minutes! I should be spending at least an hour with God!” Maybe, but God would rather have 15 minutes than NOT have your pie-in-the-sky hour. It doesn’t have to be optimal for it to be beneficial.

Last Thursday I played a piano/organ concert with my friend Mike Guyote (it’s Cajun, pronounced GEE-OTT, hard-G). Anyway, as we were waiting for folks to arrive, I’m talking with a fellow that seems to be involved. He’s put out some information about the Theater Organ Society and is collecting donations. I ask about his role. “I’m president.” I said, “Oh, you play the organ!” “Yes, but not in public. I’m too much of a perfectionist.” I’m watching people come in, most well over 70, bringing their sack lunches for the noon concert. I said, “You know, don’t you, that if you make a mistake while playing, most people won’t know, and none of them will care.” He replied, “Yes, but I’d know.” It doesn’t have to be optimal to be beneficial. This fellow is missing an opportunity to bless others with music:

As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace. (1 Peter 4.10, ESV)

Sahil’s context in the 2026 version of the ABC goal system is a daily discipline. I would say like time with God, or practicing the piano, or exercise. I’d love to get a decent workout in every day, but sometimes I have to settle for walking the dog. It doesn’t have to be optimal to be beneficial.

Let’s close with something practical. “I should be spending hours in prayer.” Maybe, but what did Jesus say?

One day, as Jesus was in prayer, one of his disciples came over to him as he finished and said, “Would you teach us a model prayer that we can pray, just as John did for his disciples?”

So Jesus taught them this prayer: “Our heavenly Father, may the glory of your name be the center on which our life turns. May your Holy Spirit come upon us and cleanse us. Manifest your kingdom on earth. And give us our needed bread for the coming day. Forgive our sins as we ourselves release forgiveness to those who have wronged us. And rescue us every time we face tribulations.” (Luke 11.1 – 4, TPT)

Not very long, is it?

Knicks win!?

Last night, the New York Knicks won the NBA Championship after a drought of 53 years. Good for them. I watched very little of the playoffs, but I did monitor the different series, taking less interest when my (favored) Denver Nuggets lost in the first round to the Minnesota Timberwolves. I was pleased when the San Antonio Spurs took out the Timberwolves and went on to defeat top-ranked and reigning champions, the Oklahoma City Thunder. I thought how can San Antonio miss with the tallest player in the game, Victor Wembanyama?

The guy on the left is 6’3″. Wembanyama is 7’4″

The Knicks, however, went on a historic run. Down two games to one in their first playoff series, they won three in a row to beat the Atlanta Hawks. Then they won another eight straight games, sweeping both the Philadelphia 76ers and the Cleveland Cavaliers.

But can they beat the Spurs?

  • The Spurs won 9 more games in the regular season than the Knicks. Didn’t matter. The Knicks extended their winning streak by two more games, winning the first two games against the Spurs (in San Antonio!). 13 consecutive wins in the playoffs before losing the third game in their best of seven series with the Spurs.
  • Spurs had 7’4″ Wembanyama. Didn’t matter.
  • Spurs had double-digit leads in four of the five games. Didn’t matter.
    • Knicks came back in their first game against the Cavaliers, down by 22 in the fourth quarter.
    • In the fourth game of the finals, Spurs were up 29 (not a typo – 29) points late in the third quarter. Knicks came back to win game 4.
    • At one point in game 5, the Knicks were down by 16. They were down by 15 late in the third quarter, before rallying to win game 5 and take the championship.

As sometimes happens, David defeats Goliath, and the Knicks defeated the Spurs four games to one to win their first NBA title since 1973.

And the king of Israel answered, “Tell him, ‘Let not him who straps on his armor boast himself as he who takes it off.’ ” (1 Kings 20.11, ESV)

Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it. (1 Corinthians 9.24, ESV)

Functional Transformation

Seth Godin wrote on May 20, 2026, about changing the function of something that already exists:

Functional transformation doesn’t ask us to build something new from scratch. It requires us to look at what already exists and see possibilities others have missed.

This is how industries evolve. Not always through invention, but through transformation.

Sometimes, we make an impact by transforming the function of what already exists.

It’s the kind of thing Neil Hudson advocates in his book Imagine Church (strongly recommend). He calls the concept “the one-degree shift.” For example, how could the worship service hour be used more fruitfully? Already, I notice, our new pastor has put the meet/greet time earlier in the service and makes it last longer. That certainly adds to community and “fellowship.”

Here’s an idea: No matter where I’m preaching, no one can stop me from adding a meditation minute at the end, having them think and pray about what they want to apply. I’m going to try it when I preach on June 28. I have added this to the end of the sermon:

Let’s pray and as we do, I want to give you a few minutes to look back over the text and any notes you might have made. James 1.22 says, “Do not  merely listen to the word and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says!” What does God want you to do with what you heard this morning?

Let’s take a couple of minutes to ask Him…

I’ll let you know how it turns out.

Time Perspective

Every day my computer selects a picture from that day in some previous year. On May 16, 2026, it showed me this picture:

It’s Mark on May 16, 2025, showing us for the first time the house that we now live in. “I just want to get an idea of the kind of house you might like when you decide to move.” “We like this one! How can we get it?”

Seven weeks after we saw it for the first time, we had been in it for two days! That was a fast seven weeks, including:

  • Getting a bridge loan application in process
  • Spending two weeks on Grand Cayman Island
  • Enjoying a week’s visit with son David and family from Atlanta
  • Starting packing
  • Hosting daughter Melody and her daughter Liana for Matt’s wedding on June 29 in the old house.
  • Finishing packing June 30 and July 1.
  • Moving on July 2.

A fast seven weeks.

A slow 17 weeks after that, we closed on our old house. It seemed like a long wait at the time:

We closed on October 31, and when all the dust settled, we had a new house and about $100,000 more in our accounts than when we started the process. As I say, a long 17 weeks with a lot of unknowns.

But now? It’s a year later and “That’s the six months we spent buying a new house, moving, and selling the old house.” Time perspective.

One of my Cousin Joyce’s daughters posted a photo tribute on Facebook after Joyce’s passing that closed with, “See you in a minute.” True.

But do not overlook this one fact, beloved, that with the Lord one day is as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day. (2 Peter 3.8, ESV)

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