We moved into our neighborhood just over a year ago. A 20-unit complex, and as of a neighborhood picnic on August 29, I’ve met everyone. (There was one lady who NEVER comes out of her house, but she was at the picnic. She was the last one.) The number and length of conversations with neighbors has increased dramatically since we got Paddy the Dog Memorial Day weekend.
I’ve been asking God why we’re here, and a few days ago, Marvin Campbell, US President of The Navigators, shared the game plan. I reproduce it here. It’s a play anyone can run. Marvin writes:
Over the last several years, I’ve had short conversations with one of my neighbors — often standing in the driveway. These conversations were cordial and friendly, but rarely very deep. From time to time, he would share something going on in his life. I would offer to pray, and the next time we crossed paths, I would try to remember to ask how things were going.
Nothing dramatic. No obvious breakthroughs. Just brief encounters over time and an effort to be present and engaged.
Then, a few weeks ago, everything changed.
He experienced what could easily have been a fatal head-on collision while driving on a narrow road. Miraculously, the collision was avoided; he can’t recall doing anything that prevented it. Not long after, he was sitting alone in a hotel room and had an overwhelming sense that Jesus was there with him — and that Jesus was his friend.
Since he knows I follow Jesus, he reached out and asked if we could get coffee.
As we sat together in our local Starbucks, he recounted these events and shared that he sensed Jesus reaching out to him. He wanted to understand what it might mean.
So, on a Starbucks drink label, I drew out The Bridge illustration and had the privilege of sharing the gospel with him. In a few weeks, we plan to meet again to talk through several passages of Scripture he agreed to read.
As I reflect on this interaction, I’m struck by the simplicity of it.
I did not orchestrate my neighbor’s circumstances. I certainly cannot explain everything he experienced, nor do I need to. God is the One who draws people to Himself. My part over these years was much smaller:
- Be a neighbor.
- Listen.
- Care.
- Pray.
- Remember.
- Follow up.
- Be available when God opens the door. – Marvin Campbell, The Navigators
Marvin closes with two questions:
- Where is God inviting you to notice, care, pray, follow up, and be available more intentionally?
- Who has He already placed in the ordinary spaces of your life for a divine appointment?
Any of us can run this play…and we should. One of my neighbors asked me a couple of weeks ago to pray that she can find a new job that’s less intense than the one she has now. Time to follow up!
“Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. (Matthew 22.36 – 39, ESV)











