University of Alabama (Bama) lost to University of George (UGA) last Saturday. A key factor right at the end was Bama cornerback Dijon Lee, Jr, “shoving” a UGA receiver after a play. ESPN reports on the play and the coach’s reaction:
Lee, who was targeted frequently by the Georgia offense, shoved a receiver in the helmet after a 1-yard run that would have set up a third down with less than 2:30 to play. With a stop, Alabama could have gotten the ball back on a punt with a chance to tie or take the lead. Instead, the penalty gave Georgia a first down and allowed the Bulldogs to kneel with the ball on the next three plays to end the game.
“We preach emotional maturity, and I really feel strong that across the board we had that with our team and would’ve never expected that to happen,” [Head Coach] DeBoer said. “You got to give yourself a chance.
“You’re out there giving everything you got. You just got to give yourself a chance. And so, emotional maturity is what it comes down to. And we’ve been pretty good at that going on the last two years. Obviously, the moment comes up like we had just now, we didn’t respond the right way.”
I think “shoving” is an understatement. “Shoved the receiver in the helmet” looks more like a punch. But that’s not the point of this blog.
The coach said, “…emotional maturity is what it comes down to…” Really? Later in the ESPN report we read:
DeBoer didn’t go into detail regarding another key moment with the officiating. Before Georgia’s final drive, with 3:28 left, Alabama quarterback Russell threw a pass into the end zone to wide receiver Scott, who was contacted by a Bulldogs defensive back. No penalty was called after the incompletion as DeBoer was seen screaming at officials in the aftermath.
“Seen screaming at officials…” for several minutes! Long after the play was over, while the game was continuing. Coach DeBoer should have been managing the game in progress, not screaming at the officials for a bad call no one can do anything about.
From my vantage point, Coach may preach emotional maturity, but he certainly doesn’t demonstrate it. It might be argued that the cornerback was just modeling his coach.
I don’t think Coach can say what the Apostle Paul said:
What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me—practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you. (Philippians 4.9, ESV)
The fruit of the Spirit is…self-control. (Galatians 5.22, 23)

