Listen…lead…in doing the right thing

I wrote earlier in connection with the racial challenges we’re facing now about my friend and former pastor John Ed Mathison of Montgomery, AL. At the time, he hadn’t finished his four-part series (with six main (alliterative, of course) points. It’s worth revisiting. Here’s John Ed’s summary:

To summarize – I’m listening to God and people – I’m learning what God can do – I’m leaning on God for strength and direction – I’m striving to love all people – I’m looking for ways to lift people – I’m standing up to lead. This is what I can do.  What’s your plan of action? -John Ed Mathison, July 1, 2020, https://johnedmathison.org/blog/

You can read John Ed’s whole series beginning here.

Listening is big – being willing to hear from people different from you. This blog, written on June 3, contains comments from African-American friends of mine, both in Christian ministry, both walking with God and helping others do the same. One said, “This is everyday life for black men in America.” The other said, “It’s a very very tough journey.”

I have a friend who seems to want to find out about all the sinister forces involved in the demonstrations and riots and thereby negate (I think) the message that some of us white folks need to hear. I told him, “Just because anarchists, ‘Communists,’ etc., are using the discontent as an opportunity to escalate and destabilize, doesn’t mean there aren’t legitimate grievances.”

I believe John Ed has given us a good road map: listen, learn, lean on God, love everyone, lift people up, and lead.

You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love. For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” If you bite and devour each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other. So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. (Galatians 5.13 – 16, NIV)

Happy Fourth of July!

It’s the fourth of July, a momentous event in world history.

The Declaration of Independence was signed July 4, 1776, more than a year after Revolutionary War hostilities had begun. The war formally ended in 1783, and the U.S. Constitution was adopted in 1789.

I’m wondering if we’re at another crossroads in our history. Can we rise above the long-term effects of COVID? Can we actually provide “liberty and justice for all?”

I’m thinking not without prayer. Ronald Reagan reminded us of Benjamin Franklin’s call to prayer at the Constitutional Convention:

The national celebration of the Bicentennial of the Constitution also gives us an opportunity to remember and honor those who gathered in Philadelphia to forge a document that would provide a blueprint for this great Nation. Benjamin Franklin, the oldest member of the Assembly, reminded his fellow delegates that God had heard their prayers during their struggle for Independence. Should they not remember, he asked, that God governs in the affairs of men? “If a sparrow cannot fall without His notice,” he urged them, “how can an empire rise without His aid?” – Ronald Reagan, February 12, 1987

From time to time June or I receives an email or sees something on Facebook about a one-minute daily prayer for the nation. It dates back to a one-minute prayer in Great Britain during World War II. This is an apparent grass-roots movement about which I know nothing. This expression of it has been around since 2008. In Great Britain, it never went away and revived after 9/11/2001. The web site tells the history and encourages us all to pray for one-minute at 9p, Eastern time.

It’s not a bad idea. And I think we should pray not only for the U.S. for all world leaders.

I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people—for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. (1 Timothy 2.1, 2, NIV)

If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land. (2 Chronicles 7.14, NIV)

Unsung Heroes: “Just a Janitor”

I received a note from my friend Ray Bandi in New Hampshire containing this little, very simple, suggestion on how to do Bible study:

When I wrote to thank him for it, he responded that it wasn’t his…it came from his friend Bill, a janitor in a local high school! Here’s some of what Ray wrote:

I want to make sure to give credit where it is due.  It’s not my stoplight illustration, it’s my friend Bill Fraser’s.  Bill is about 65.  He’s a janitor at the Lincoln, NH central school…One Sunday morning after church, Bill came over, and he said, “You know, I read the Bible often, but I never seem to get much out of it.”  So, I asked him, “When you read the Bible, what are you looking for?”  And he smiled and said, “I’m supposed to be looking for something?” So, I started him with the quiet time card we use with questions on the back: “Is there … Something to learn about God? Something to learn about me? A promise to trust? An example to follow? An action to take? etc.”  A couple of years later, Bill and another man joined me for Every Man a Warrior.  After that he came with me with to [a Navigator men’s conference].  Then he started coming on our Disciple-Makers Weekends. Now the “janitor” is leading an Every Man a Warrior group with a retired math teacher, a retired (90+ year old) pastor, and a young guy in his 30s with a couple of kids. … And they all know that God has put some things in them that they didn’t have before Bill started helping them. – Ray Bandi, New Hampshire, June 2020 (emphasis Ray’s)

So many lessons. I’ve been writing all week about how God spoke to me through an obituary of someone who “…lived the adventure of seeking God and loving people…” while working as a vice-president for Marriott. Now here’s a janitor doing the same thing. It goes back to my small addition to the message from the obit:

Seek God, love people, help others do the same!

Now when they saw the boldness of Peter and John, and perceived that they were uneducated, common men, they were astonished. And they recognized that they had been with Jesus. (Acts 4.13, ESV)

You then, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus. And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others. (2 Timothy 2.1, 2, NIV)

Consumed with God…in Nazareth

I’ve written before that it was important that Jesus grow up in Nazareth, not the Temple. I want to revisit that in light of the past two days’ meditations on the obituary:

Ed lived the great adventure of seeking God and loving people…

Ed was not a religious professional: he was a food service executive for Marriott. Now let’s look at Jesus:

His parents were shocked to find him [in the Temple], and Mary scolded him, saying, “Son, your father and I have searched for you everywhere! We have been worried sick over not finding you. Why would you do this to us?” Jesus said to them, “Why would you need to search for me? Didn’t you know that it was necessary for me to be here in my Father’s house, consumed with him?”…Jesus went with them back home to Nazareth and was obedient to them. (Luke 2.48 – 51, Passion Translation)

Was Jesus less consumed with God in Nazareth than he was at the Temple? Was Ed less consumed with God working for Marriott than he would have been had he been in “full-time ministry”? The Apostle Paul was clear:

And don’t be wishing you were someplace else or with someone else. Where you are right now is God’s place for you. Live and obey and love and believe right there… Friends, stay where you were called to be. God is there. Hold the high ground with him at your side. (1 Corinthians 7.17, 24, MSG)

Study, do, teach

I wrote yesterday about how God spoke to me through the obituary of someone I don’t even know:

Seek God, love people, help others do the same

Later, I thought of one of my life verses:

For Ezra had set his heart to study the law of the LORD and to practice it, and to teach His statutes and ordinances in Israel. (Ezra 7.10, NASB)

It ties together:

  • Study the Word – not for academic purposes but in order to know God. (You search the Scriptures because you think that in them you have eternal life; and it is they that bear witness about me. John 5.39, ESV)
  • Practice the Word – Jesus said the law of the LORD calls for loving God and loving people (Matthew 22.36 – 39)
  • Teach the Word – help others do the same. (Anyone who does not know the teaching, you teach them! Ezra 7.25, MSG)

To put it back into the language of the obituary:

  • Study – seek God
  • Do – love people
  • Teach – help others do the same

And beginning with Moses and all the Prophets, [Jesus] interpreted to them in all the Scriptures the things concerning himself. (Luke 24.27 ESV)

…Through love serve one another. For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” (Galatians 5.13, 14, ESV)

Seek God, Love people

Are we alert to hear from God no matter how he chooses to speak? I’m a huge advocate, as you know, of spending daily time with God in prayer and the Word. But the other day, God spoke clearly through an obituary!

I normally don’t read the obits except to occasionally check to be sure I’m not in them! But June does, and she found an obit on someone we don’t know, and it really got our attention. Here’s a snippet:

For Ed, God was not a distant figure, but the One with Whom he daily sought a deeper relationship, an intimacy where he could learn to give up control and surrender to Him. Ed lived the great adventure of seeking God and loving people, beginning with those closest to him. – From the Obituary of Ed Blair, The Gazette, Colorado Springs, CO, June 2020.

Ed was not a Christian professional. His career was in food service, primarily working for Marriott. But I love this sentence: “Ed lived the great adventure of seeking God and loving people…”

What I heard God say to me was:

Seek God, love people, help others do the same.

My friend Shane observed that one leads to the other:

If we’re seeking to know God, we’ll learn that he loves people, and if we love people, one of the best things we can do for them is to help them seek God and love people, too!

It’s what the Apostle Paul was about:

God has chosen to make known among the Gentiles the glorious riches of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory. He is the one we proclaim, admonishing and teaching everyone with all wisdom, so that we may present everyone fully mature in Christ. (Colossians 1.27, 28, NIV)

Ministry Enhancement

I wrote the other day about what God is doing despite COVID-19. Although some of our regular ministries are disrupted, sometimes our ministries are enhanced. Such is true for us.

We were disappointed to see the summer sessions at Spring Canyon canceled. I was scheduled to speak June 27 – July 4. HOWEVER, I was asked to present a condensed version of the content by video, and I’m pleased to announce that the videos have been posted.

Each video is less than 30 minutes long. I recommend you download the handout first. When I posted this information to my mailing list, my friend David Shropshire in Alabama observed:

Maybe you will have a MUCH larger audience than otherwise!

Amen. It’s ministry enhancement, not disruption.

Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, “Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! … And God granted his request. (1 Chronicles 4.10, NIV)

We do not boast beyond limit in the labors of others. But our hope is that as your faith increases, our area of influence among you may be greatly enlarged. (2 Corinthians 10.15, ESV)

Jesus really does want the rose!

I was meditating on yesterday’s blog: Jesus wants the rose! If you missed it, it’s worth checking out and listening to the short video. I was thinking about the way I was raised – in a conservative, let’s do all the right things and avoid all the wrong things environment – and wondering how we missed Jesus.

How can we be a student of the gospels and miss Jesus? I’m not sure, but take a close look at the Gospel of John:

  • Chapter 2: Jesus provides wine at a wedding. We would NEVER have done that!
  • Chapter 4: Jesus engages with a woman of ill-repute, who is also a member of a hated racial group. We wouldn’t have done that either. And Jesus not only engages with her, he reveals himself to her (John 4.26), and she becomes the instrument by which he reaches an entire village (John 4.28, 29).
  • Chapter 8: Jesus rescues a woman taken in adultery. “Neither do I condemn you. Go and sin no more.” (John 8.11) Really? Not condemn an adulteress?
  • Chapter 9: Jesus reveals himself to a blind beggar. “I who speak to you am the Messiah.” (John 9.35, 36)

Which Jesus are we following? The one who takes care of the “in-crowd”? Or the one who reaches out to the outcasts? The one who wants the beat-up rose?

Later when Jesus was eating supper at Matthew’s house with his close followers, a lot of disreputable characters came and joined them. When the Pharisees saw him keeping this kind of company, they had a fit, and lit into Jesus’ followers. “What kind of example is this from your Teacher, acting cozy with crooks and riff-raff?” Jesus, overhearing, shot back, “Who needs a doctor: the healthy or the sick? Go figure out what this Scripture means: ‘I’m after mercy, not religion.’ I’m here to invite outsiders, not coddle insiders.” (Matthew 9.10 – 13, MSG)

Jesus wants the rose!

I’m getting a lot of mileage out of the story I told back on June 15 about our pastor’s handling of someone who injected profanity into our Zoom worship service. The pastor told us all: “Do you know that it is your unedited self that God loves?” I shared it just the other day with a relatively new Christian participating with us in a Bible study.

I also shared this companion story. It’s a 4-minute video I strongly encourage you to watch.

Matt Chandler: Jesus wants the rose!

The short version of the video is this. Matt Chandler had taken a friend who was not yet a believer to a concert at a church. After the concert, the pastor proceeded to talk about the evils of illicit sex. To illustrate his point, he had a beautiful rose which he passed to the audience, inviting as many people as possible to touch the rose, admire the rose, smell the rose. After a few minutes, this pastor said, “Where’s my rose?” When he got it back, it was all torn up from all the handling. And the pastor’s point was, “Who wants this rose now? Who wants the rose?” And Matt, who is telling this story said that he was angry, very angry, that the pastor was missing the whole point of the gospel. Matt said:

Jesus wants the rose!

Even if you’ve read this far and know the punch line, I still encourage you to watch the video. It’s powerful, and the message is powerful. Right out of the Bible.

For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him. (2 Corinthians 5.21, NKJV)

But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. (Romans 5.8, NKJV)

Creative Communications

If we’re going to work with real people, we need to think about what people are already doing and work with them not against them. A friend of mine recently decried the fact that young people in his church were reading the Bible on their phones instead of a book. I challenged him: “Do you really care how people read the Bible? We used to have only scrolls!”

Continuing with yesterday’s theme of how technology can enhance our ministry, it’s always worthwhile to think about what we can do, not about what we can’t. For example, I wrote four blogs on what I learned from Greg Ogden in a virtual conference I would never have heard of or had an opportunity to attend if COVID-19 hadn’t canceled the planned live event.

Someone referred me to From iPhones to iGod: The Rise of Digital Spirituality. The article is filled with examples of how creative people are leveraging technology to deliver all kinds of spiritual content (not all of which, Bible-believing Christians would support!). But that’s not the point. The point is that in addition to delivering church on-line, people are telling Bible stories by video in The Bible Project and encouraging spiritual formation with a game similar to Pokemon Go: Follow JC Go!

It’s not referred to in the iPhones to iGod article, but I’m on the mailing list of Revelation Media, who have already produced Pilgrim’s Progress and are working on iBible. From what I’ve seen, I recommend their work.

I admire the creativity of people trying to get the message out there. It doesn’t advance the gospel to criticize the medium nor the messages we don’t agree with that some are propagating.

I’m reminded that a few years ago, Starbucks began putting quotes from various people on their coffee cups. The large church we were attending at the time, began to rethink whether or not they should continue to sell Starbucks coffee from the coffee shop in the church atrium since the church didn’t agree with all of the quotes on those cups. By contrast, Rick Warren, pastor of Saddleback Church in southern California, wrote to Starbucks: “Will you put one of my quotes on your cups?” The answer from Starbucks: “Yes.”

I want you to be smart in the same way—but for what is right—using every adversity to stimulate you to creative survival, to concentrate your attention on the bare essentials, so you’ll live, really live, and not complacently just get by on good behavior.” (Luke 16.9, MSG)

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