I wrote yesterday about the good-natured ribbing some sports fans give each other about their respective teams. We’re from different “tribes;” we recognize that and kid about it sometimes, but we get along. We’d like to think it’s like that about race or ethnicity differences. We see differences, but deep down, we know we’re all the same, or at least we’re not defined by those differences. But some people do define others by their differences.

I found Waking Up White by Debby Irving to be an eye-opener on so many levels. If you are among those with doubts about “white privilege” and “systemic racism,” I recommend you read the book. As my friend and former pastor Dr. John Ed Mathison of Montgomery, Alabama, wrote recently, we need to listen, learn, and love.

One story from the book sticks with me. It’s about “True Colors,” a segment from ABC’s Primetime, 1991. Here’s what Debby wrote:

I recommend you watch the segment for yourself. It’s only 17 minutes. And then, as John Ed wrote, listen, learn, love.

To answer before listening— that is folly and shame. (Proverbs 18.13, NIV)

The LORD detests differing weights, and dishonest scales do not please him. (Proverbs 20.23, NIV)

To do what is right and just is more acceptable to the LORD than sacrifice. (Proverbs 21.3, NIV)

A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another. (John 13.34, 35, NIV)