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It’s no secret that some of us prefer some styles of church music over others. I was raised with hymns accompanied by a particular type of improvisational piano we called “evangelistic style.” I admired Tedd Smith who used to play for the Billy Graham Crusades. My CD, Impromptu Piano Praise, captures some of that. Now I like to say that I have a skill for which there is no demand. “Contemporary worship” or “praise music” has taken over.
I know people who won’t attend a church that doesn’t play “traditional” music–whatever their tradition is. I could have
During the music portion of one of our services, the band was leading a song that I thought was the absolute worst song I’ve ever heard. In fact, it’s the only time in my ministry that I almost went up on stage and stopped the song before it was finished. I didn’t stop the song, and right after it was over, someone standing next to me said, “That’s why I come to this church: because the music is so good!”
Randy went on to say,
So I have an idea: when you’re singing in a worship service, instead of asking yourself whether you like a song or not, why don’t you look around and see if anyone else likes the song. Then you can be glad that they’re singing songs that people like, even if you’re not one of them.
That is fabulous advice! I’ve been in an auditorium with 7,000 of my closest friends and 6,999 of them were really into the music. I was the only one I could see who wasn’t. But it’s OK! It doesn’t have to be about me.
In humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. (Philippians 2.3, 4, NIV)
It’s funny that this reminded me of the time when Dan’s mom was in our car…we were taking her out for a birthday lunch celebration. Dan & I generally listen the The Message channel on Sirius XM. We were almost at our destination when she commented about how weird the music was. Dan explained it was a Christian channel and we thought that was that.
After lunch, as we got back in the car, she promptly asked to change the channel to Classical…her preference, which Dan did.
To this day, we sort of chuckle and make sure the music isn’t ‘offensive’ to her whenever she rides with us. I must say I feel rather sad she didn’t enjoy any of it as I feel they have great variety in their playlists.
We all have our favorite types of music, don’t we?
Thanks for this post Bob.
Cute story, Kathleen, and yes, we all have our preferences!