Perseverance

I’ve been writing about my progress in golf, such as it is, as a function of:

Today, let’s consider Perseverance. After I purposed to improve my golf game and began to practice, mostly on the range, I’d have days when I thought, “It’s coming! Today I hit 50 balls and most of them were good hits!” Then I’d go out the next day and maybe only a third were good hits. At that point I realized:

Purpose and practice aren’t enough. I have to persevere even when there’s little apparent progress.

In fact, I told my friend and fellow golf struggler Tom that I considered my current experiment with golf as “an exercise in goal-setting and perseverance.” And so I stayed with it. I’d take another lesson where I’d usually realize that I wasn’t implementing the basics that my instructor had already tried to teach me. So back to the range. Back to thinking about what I was supposed to think about. Practice. Practice. Practice. And even after the “good” round that allowed me to write this series, I went out a week later and…one step forward, two steps back.

Isn’t life like that? I think my problem with anger is in the past until I’m around “certain people.” I’ve been faithful in my daily time with God and scripture memory, and I still have issues. “It” doesn’t work! That’s when it’s useful to recall our purpose, resume our training, and persevere.

You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised. (Hebrews 10.36, NIV)

Practice

I’m writing about how my golf game has improved, and how I’ve made progress by means of:

  • Purpose
  • Practice
  • Perseverance
  • Performance

Yesterday I wrote about the importance of the decision: purpose. But there’s an old riddle: “Three frogs sat on a lily pad, and two of them decided to jump off. How many frogs are left?” Answer: “Three. The two just decided to jump off; they didn’t actually do it.” So decision or purpose is not enough…

Today, let’s talk about practice.

I have always been well aware that to get better at golf (or anything else) one has to practice. I met a sergeant in the Air Force who told me, “I go out to the driving range and knock out 200 – 300 balls a day.” I knew then that I would never be a good golfer! And I’ve always been able to play “adequate” golf (by my definition) without the range. Not this year.

My friend (and blog reader) Tom wanted us to play more golf, so our first meeting was on the range – remember, I hadn’t played since 2017! So I hit 25 balls on the range, got one lesson, and then Tom and I met for a disastrous nine holes. Afterward, I told him, “We can’t play next week, I have to get some time on the driving range.”

You practice and you get better. It’s very simple. – Philip Glass, composer

So two months, 30 visits to the range hitting 1300+ balls, and nine practice rounds later, and I could see progress. But there were times when it wasn’t easy. Tomorrow I’ll talk about perseverance.

Train yourself for godliness. (1 Timothy 4.7, ESV)

Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last, but we do it to get a crown that will last forever. (1 Corinthians 9.25, NIV)

Purpose

I started yesterday writing about how my golf game has improved. I’ve made progress by means of:

  • Purpose
  • Practice
  • Perseverance
  • Performance

Today, let’s talk about purpose.

No one ever got better at anything accidentally. The first step in growth is the decision to pursue growth intentionally. I use “purpose” for alliteration!

Daniel purposed in this heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king’s food… (Daniel 1.8, NKJV)

After the purpose, Daniel had to figure out how to make that happen, described in the rest of chapter 1, but purpose came first.

I purposed to improve my golf game, and I followed through on that purpose by getting some lessons, investing in some new equipment (just shoes and two new clubs!), and committing to practice (more on that tomorrow).

Do you want to grow as a disciple? We’ve said that Bible knowledge in and of itself is not sufficient, but it’s certainly a start. If you don’t feel competent to hear from God through the scriptures, what are you doing to become competent? How about scripture memory? If you’ve never tried it or want to get back to it, the first step is the decision.

Prayer? A mission-focus? We can grow in any or all of these areas by first deciding to.

Whether or not my golf game improves is trivial. But the act of pursuing it has been very instructive. And it began with purpose.

Now Solomon purposed to build a temple for the name of the LORD, and a royal palace for himself. (2 Chronicles 2.1, ESV)

May He grant you according to your heart’s desire, And fulfill all your purpose. (Psalm 20.4, NKJV)

Progress…

I’ve been waiting for two months to write this series of blogs. I had to wait until there was something to write about! The topic? Lessons learned working on my golf game.

I’ve never been a good golfer, but I used to be “adequate,” at least by my standards, which are:

  • Hit nearly all balls so that they go up (not dribble along the ground) in the general direction of the hole.
  • Don’t lose more golf balls than I find.
  • Don’t spend too much time looking for my ball so that I slow down people I’m playing with.

That’s all. Modest goals. We’ve been “swim and fitness” members of our local club, but in 2017 all swim members played golf for free. I went out a few times shooting between 53 and 58 on our challenging, treed course with lots of elevation. (I put that out there just for perspective.) My knee went out in October 2017, and I haven’t played golf since.

Now it’s 2021, two knee replacements later, and I want to get back to it. I started out terribly. Two months after starting I shot a 48 (10 strokes better than most of my previous rounds at my local course). It’s still a work in progress, but there is progress, and that’s what I want to talk about over the next few days:

  • Purpose
  • Practice
  • Perseverance
  • Performance

And being confident of this, I know that I shall remain and continue with you all for your progress and joy of faith. (Philippians 1.25, NKJV)

Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 3.13, 14, ESV)

The Role of the Church

I’ve written before about my friend Dr. Vilmer Paul, pastor in Haiti and also administrator of a large school. Vilmer also is one of my “Unsung Heroes,” as I wrote on July 14, 2019. Vilmer has written an article about the recent assassination of the Haitian President. I encourage you to read it in its entirety to see the challenges Haitians face. Here’s a sample:

  • 4 million tons of trees are cut each year but only 500,000 tons are replanted. The results are clear: Haiti has only 1.5% forest cover
  • 13 households out of 14 have to carry the water they use. However, thanks to the rain, Haiti receives 560 times the water needs of the population
  • Haiti produces the least waste per capita of the whole area (0.70 kg per person per day), compared to 1.26 kg in the Dominican Republic and 2.04 kg for the United States. Haiti is however the most unhealthy country in the whole zone because we only collect 11% of our garbage, compared to 60% for the Dominican Republic and 76% for Jamaica.
  • Every night, 8 million of our compatriots sleep in the dark, without electricity
  • 5 million of us can not read or write and are in the dark, day and night
  • 8 out of 10 Haitians live on less than US $ 2 a day (9 out of 10 in rural areas)

Vilmer points out that a very few of their leaders, including the one just assassinated, were trying to do something about this. Trying to help the masses rather than the wealthy few. But then they are martyred. Then he asks: what is the church’s response? How shall we live? Here is his conclusion:

For some church leaders, the church should be jumped right in politics to solve the problem.

For some others the church should be separated completely from politics to not be empoisoned by its venom.

But Jesus doesn’t say any of these in those ways. This is what he says:

“May we, the Church be light in this world, be the salt of this world” (Matt 5:15-16) in other terms, be the influencer of this world.

I am and until I go to the grave attached to Christ’s word. God’s people should be the influencers by being, acting, saying, doing, and managing things differently, in the depraved, decayed, and selfish society. I mean, being in politics if one is not light and salt, the situation becomes worse, be separated from politics has nothing good in itself if one is still not light and salt. It is time that Pastors, deacons, believers stop being involved in so much corruption and impurity of life among my fellow brothers and sisters.  Let’s give another image of Christ to our society, it is time, it is our role.

If Our Haitian church played his role as it should have been, we probably would not have seen so much drama before our face.

The Apostle Peter would agree, and I would add: pray for our brothers in Haiti.

But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. Once you were not a people, but now you are God’s people; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy. Beloved, I urge you as sojourners and exiles to abstain from the passions of the flesh, which wage war against your soul. Keep your conduct among the Gentiles honorable, so that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day of visitation. (1 Peter 2.9 – 12, ESV)

God at Work

I woke up this morning to a comment on yesterday’s blog from our friend and faithful blog reader Laura:

Oh, thank you so much! Really needed this today. – Blog reader

I was puzzled. The blog wasn’t that profound. It was more “cute,” I thought. When I publish a blog every day, I don’t expect all of them to be home runs and reflective of deep thought and profound principles. Thankfully, she anticipated my question and sent an explanatory email.

It turns out that they have something going on in their lives right now, and she:

…reacted strongly to your reminder of what God said to Moses! – Blog reader

So it wasn’t anything I said, it was the verse:

GOD answered Moses, “So, do you think I can’t take care of you? You’ll see soon enough whether what I say happens for you or not.” (Numbers 11.23, MSG)

I had no idea what verse I was going to put on that blog. I wasn’t even sure what point I was trying to make. But that verse popped into my head. Clearly, it was for Laura. It’s fun to see God at work. 

And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. (Romans 8.28, NASB)

Out of Service?

I needed some cash the other day so I drove to my Wells Fargo bank only to find that the drive-up ATM was out of service. The screen said something like, “This ATM is out of service. Call this number to find the location of other Wells Fargo ATMs.” 

I’m embarrassed to say that my first thought was, “Great. The nearest Wells Fargo is about 20 minutes away.” Then it dawned on me: the bank was open! Why not just park, go inside and…wait for it…speak to a live teller. I got the cash I needed and had a pleasant conversation with an actual person in not too much more time than the ATM would have taken.

I’m not sure what the cosmic lesson is. I do wonder why the Out of Service message on the ATM itself wouldn’t say, “The ATM is out of service, but our friendly tellers are inside, waiting to serve you from 9 a.m to 5 p.m.” I also wonder why I didn’t think of going inside before I tried to think of where the nearest ATM was.

Maybe the ATM sign should have said, “This ATM is out of service, but the bank isn’t!”

GOD answered Moses, “So, do you think I can’t take care of you? You’ll see soon enough whether what I say happens for you or not.” (Numbers 11.23, MSG)

Go Ye and Preach the Gospel

Yesterday, I quoted Jim Elliott, one of the five missionaries killed in Ecuador in 1956. Their story is worth one more day. Earlier this summer, Wheaton College updated the plaque originally dedicated in 1957 by the class of 1949, Jim Elliott’s class. I grew up hearing the story, so I was a bit concerned that an “update” would somehow diminish what they had done. I needn’t have worried. Here’s the updated plaque:

Go Ye and Preach the Gospel

Dedicated to the glory of God and in loving memory of Ed McCully, President of the Class of 1949, and Jim Elliot ’49, also a campus leader. Motivated by God’s love and the Great Commission, together with Nate Saint ’50, Roger Youderian, and Pete Fleming, they went to the mission field willing for “anything—anywhere regardless of the cost.”

God called them to the rainforest of Ecuador and the Waorani, a people who had never heard the gospel message. Known for their violence to encroaching outsiders and for internal cycles of vengeance killing, they were among the most feared indigenous peoples in South America at the time.

After much preparation and prayer, and weeks of friendly gift exchanges by airplane, the missionaries made peaceful ground contact with the Waorani. On January 8, 1956, as the missionaries anticipated a second friendly encounter, the Waorani attacked. All five men were speared to death—martyrs for the love of Christ. 

Their sacrifice was a turning point for the Waorani and an inspiration for evangelical missions globally. Inviting members of the men’s families to live with them, the Waorani responded to the gospel and put down their spears. God’s redemptive story continues as the gospel is still shared among the Waorani to this day. – Based on the plaque given to Wheaton College by the Class of 1949 and to be rededicated in 2021. 

FYI, here is the original plaque:

For the love of Christ constraineth us; because we thus judge, that if one died for all, then were all dead: And that he died for all, that they which live should not henceforth live unto themselves, but unto him which died for them, and rose again. 2 Corinthians 5.14, KJV)

Be There

My first book, Join the Adventure, is based on a story a friend told me about a 90-year-old lady who moved into a nursing home, noticed that the residents had nothing to do on Sunday afternoons, and started an informal story-sharing session. This led to her starting Bible studies among the residents and her efforts grew into significant ministry. My friend summarized her actions as:

  • Be there
  • Pay attention
  • Do what you can
  • Tell the truth

Once when I shared from that outline, my 20-year-old grandson said, “Great sermon, GrandBob. Except for the first point. The first point is stupid! Everyone is where they are!” Actually, they’re not. Most people spend their time wishing they were somewhere else.

I was pleased to see Heather Holleman’s July 7 blog: All There. She started by quoting Jim Elliott, one of the five missionaries killed in Ecuador in 1956:

Wherever you are, be all there! Live to the hilt every situation you believe to be the will of God. – Jim Elliott

Heather continues:

Wherever I am, I want to be all there.

Being “all there” means so many things to me: it means not always wishing for a different situation; it means fully embracing the gifts God gives in every place; and it means actively seeking to discover those gifts that sometimes come hidden or disguised. It means loving others fully without focusing on myself. I want to be “all there” for other people around me.

I’m all there to observe the nature around me.

I’m all there to listen to others and really see them.

I’m all there to receive what God has.

I’m all there with finding friendship with God all day long. He’s “all there” all the time.

The apostle Paul also supports the “be all there” concept:

And don’t be wishing you were someplace else or with someone else. Where you are right now is God’s place for you. Live and obey and love and believe right there… (1 Corinthians 7.17, MSG)

Knowledge? Or loving action?

“Go thou and do likewise” is the end of the parable of the Good Samaritan. It’s easy to brush over, but let’s remind ourselves of the context.

Just then a religious scholar stood before Jesus in order to test his doctrines. He posed this question: “Teacher, what requirement must I fulfill if I want to live forever in heaven?” Jesus replied, “What do you read in the Law? How do you understand it?” The religious scholar answered, “It states, ‘You must love the Lord God with all your heart, all your passion, all your energy, and your every thought. And you must love your neighbor as yourself.’” Jesus said, “That is correct. Now go and do exactly that and you will live.” Wanting to justify himself, he questioned Jesus further, saying, “What do you mean by ‘my neighbor’?” (Luke 10.25 – 29, TPT emphasis mine)

The story of the Good Samaritan answers the question of the “religious scholar” – we might say Bible student – “Who is my neighbor?” and closes with:

So, now, tell me, which one of the three men who saw the wounded man proved to be the true neighbor?” The religious scholar responded, “The one who demonstrated kindness and mercy.” Jesus said, “You must go and do the same as he.” (Luke 10.36, 37, TPT)

It doesn’t matter that I am a “religious scholar.” What matters is that I’m loving my neighbor. Paul said the same thing:

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, … but have not love, I am nothing. (1 Corinthians 13.1, 2, ESV)

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