I read two blogs daily: One is Seth Godin, a marketing guru, at least a third of whose posts relate to ministry in some way. The other is Heather Holleman, a writing professor at Penn State, also on staff with CRU. Her posts could contain only a photo of something in nature or a recipe, but they often contain profound insights on a variety of subjects including writing tips, parenting, and discipleship.

Her blog on November 20 was a winner: Promoting Peace Rather Than Stirring Up Controversy. I encourage you to read it in its entirety. It’s something I’ve written on from time to time, that outrage seems to be our favorite sport right now. Here’s her opening paragraph:

Most of what I read online thrives on controversy, on mockery, and on riling others up into a froth. Young people today, I’m noticing, live in this world where the most offended wins, where the mocker wins, and where every conversation begins with the drama of the day. Controversy and quarrels gain followers and attention. Mockery and cynicism give a seat at the table on most social media platforms. But is it productive? Is it good? Does it change anyone’s mind?

She goes on to pull wisdom from Proverbs. Again, I encourage you to read her whole blog. She closes with:

I’ve won a thousand arguments as a national debater, orator, and generally logical person, but I’ve rarely changed someone’s mind through my sarcasm, mockery, or ability to create controversy. Winning arguments isn’t the same thing as persuading someone. I’d rather persuade than win.

Mockers stir up a city, but the wise turn away anger…Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end. (Proverbs 29.8, 11, NIV)

Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. Matthew 5.9, NIV)