Are we helpful?

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While in Estes Park last week we decided to drive through the little townhome community where we sometimes stay when we’re there. Upon turning in, we were greeted by this 8.5 x 11 computer-generated sign:

Sign: No stable access! The Internet map is incorrect.

The sign struck us as neither welcoming nor helpful. Of course, it wasn’t designed to be welcoming; it was specifically designed to be unwelcoming. They don’t like people driving through there, especially looking for something that’s not there.

Even given that the community likes to keep people out, the sign could have been more helpful. In the same amount of space, it could have looked like this:

Alternate sign: No stable access! Access the stables through Glacier Lodge, one street east.

In other words, instead of telling people what won’t work, why not tell them what will? 

Do we believers sometimes have the same problem? Do we tell people what not to do instead of telling them what they can do? For example, do we rail on and on about the evils of sex outside marriage without telling them of the joys of married life?

Do we forget to tell people Jesus’ positive message?

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. (John 10.10, ESV) 

For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him. (John 3.17, ESV)

For the law was given through Moses; grace and truth came through Jesus Christ. (John 1.17, ESV) [Not just truth!]

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