Happy Mother’s Day!

Happy Mother’s Day! Your work is important…

Household management:

She watches over the ways of her household, And does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her: “Many daughters have done well, But you excel them all.” Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands, And let her own works praise her in the gates. (Proverbs 31.27 – 31, NKJV)

Teaching:

Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled. (Titus 2.3 – 5, ESV)

Raising the next generation of Christian leaders. Paul wrote to Timothy:

I am reminded of your sincere faith, a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice and now, I am sure, dwells in you as well. For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands, for God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control. (2 Timothy 1.5 – 7, ESV)

Thank you!

PS The high view of women and mothers, as presented in the Bible, is not universally held. I just finished a novel by the late Michael Crichton, The Great Train Robbery, inspired by events in Victorian England in the 1850s. The book gives us glimpses into London society, where, as the teaser for the book starts:

London, 1855, when lavish wealth and appalling poverty exist side by side…

Another theme is the station of women at that time. They were considered to be emotional creatures with no intellect put on earth solely to serve men. Michael Crichton points out the absurdity of that position:

The belief in a biologically determined personality in both men and women was accepted to some extent by nearly everyone at all levels of Victorian society, and that belief was held in the face of all sorts of incongruities. A businessman could go off to work each day, leaving his “unreasoning” wife to run an enormous household, a businesslike task of formidable proportions; yet the husband never viewed his wife’s activities in that way. (Page 323)

Again, thank all you mothers for your work. It’s important AND difficult!

Using Wealth for Good

Psalm 49 warns us about not trusting in wealth, but that doesn’t mean that there aren’t wealthy people who are also generous. Job comes to mind! (Please see the blog on Job 31.)

Last Saturday, the Denver Nuggets basketball team played the Los Angeles Clippers in Denver in a winner-take-all game 7. (Nuggets won handily and have advanced to the next round.)

That’s not what this blog is about. It’s about Steve Ballmer, CEO of Microsoft and owner of the Clippers. Here’s the headline and sub headline from a surprising Denver Post article:

Clippers owner Steve Ballmer flies 125 L.A. fans to build ‘The Wall’ at Ball Arena

Before crucial Saturday Game 7, Nuggets met with a shock: 125 Clippers fans, sitting behind baseline, flown out on a charter by owner Steve Ballmer

The article starts:

On Friday, Los Angeles season-ticket holders David Evans and Paul Boulos — and 123 other bastions of “The Wall,” the Intuit Dome’s famed baseline section that specializes in free-throw distraction — had an email pop into their inbox from the Clippers. It stated, as they recounted roughly, that owner Steve Ballmer had selected them to fly out to Denver to invade enemy turf for Game 7.

Ballmer, they said, chartered a bus. Chartered a plane. Paid for 125 tickets. And so 125 Los Angeles agents met for a secret mission Saturday at the West Garage of the Intuit Dome, fan Mason Cook said and headed for LAX, where a jet awaited to bring a special dash of L.A. mania to Denver on Saturday.

Amazing. One of the recipients observed:

That’s unheard of, first off, for an owner of an NBA team to even recognize his fans like this. Second, who do you call to say, “I want 125 tickets, a charter plane, and three charter buses to get these people to the arena?

“I’ll tell you who,” Boulos interjected, standing beside him. “Steve Ballmer does it. ‘Cause ain’t nobody else in the world can do that.”

There aren’t many who could have done that. In the secondary market, tickets in that section for Game 3 of the upcoming series with Oklahoma are going for around $250 (Game 7 would be much higher). But 125 tickets at $250 each would come to more than $30,000. Plus three charter buses, plus a plane.

I’m impressed.

Wealth and riches are in his house, and his righteousness endures forever. Even in darkness light dawns for the upright, for the gracious and compassionate and righteous man. Good will come to him who is generous and lends freely, who conducts his affairs with justice. (Psalm 112.3 – 5, NIV1984)

Wealth?

There aren’t many passages that point to the futility of making wealth a life goal any better than Psalm 49…

Hear this, all peoples; Give ear, all inhabitants of the world, Both low and high, Rich and poor together…Why should I fear in the days of evil, When the iniquity at my heels surrounds me? Those who trust in their wealth And boast in the multitude of their riches, None of them can by any means redeem his brother, Nor give to God a ransom for him… (Psalm 49.1, 2, 5 – 7, NKJV)

The message is for everyone, how and high, rich and poor. What message?

For he sees wise men die; Likewise the fool and the senseless person perish, And leave their wealth to others. Their inner thought is that their houses will last forever, Their dwelling places to all generations; They call their lands after their own names. Nevertheless man, though in honor, does not remain; He is like the beasts that perish. (Psalm 49.10 – 12, NKJV)

Didn’t get it the first time? The psalm closes…

Do not be afraid when one becomes rich, When the glory of his house is increased; For when he dies he shall carry nothing away; His glory shall not descend after him. Though while he lives he blesses himself (For men will praise you when you do well for yourself), He shall go to the generation of his fathers; They shall never see light. A man who is in honor, yet does not understand, Is like the beasts that perish. (Psalm 49.16 – 20, NKJV)

That Didn’t Take Long…

I had just gotten off the phone with a friend, encouraging him to watch Conclave, when I checked email and there was a news update:

News Alert: White smoke signals a new pope elected  
White smoke has risen above the Sistine Chapel, the signal that cardinals have chosen a new pope on the second day of the conclave. His identity, and the name he will take as pontiff, will be revealed soon.

I turned on the TV and for the first time in my life saw the first appearance of a newly elected pope: Cardinal Robert Prevost, born in Chicago, the first American pope in history.

I immediately went to one of the articles I had saved of who the ten most likely cardinals to be selected were, and he is on that list at #6, a “dark horse.” ABC had Father James Martin, SJ, a well-published author, some of whose books we have read. Father Martin said over and over things like:

…humble, soft-spoken, but firm, forthright, kind

Not bad characteristics for a spiritual leader!

I like that he is a math major, same as I am!

Robert Prevost was born in Chicago in on September 14, 1955. He completed his secondary studies at the minor seminary of the Order of St. Augustine in 1973. Prevost earned a Bachelor of Science degree in mathematics at Villanova University in 1977.Wikipedia

He served as a missionary in Peru.

A Roman Catholic friend of mine wrote:

Jesus is the head of the Catholic Church, not the pope. He’s the vicar, but I put my trust in Jesus first.

Amen. May he serve well.

And [Jesus] is before all things, and in him all things hold together. And he is the head of the body, the church. He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in everything he might be preeminent. (Colossians 1.17, 18, ESV)


Conclave

If you haven’t read Conclave by Robert Harris or seen the movie, now is the time to do so. I saw the movie advertised on television, read the book, listened to the book with June, and then we watched the movie. All good experiences which helped prepare us for the real Conclave, which begins today, May 7.

All the intrigue of the novel and the movie are there, according to an article in the Wall Street Journal: Real-Life Conclave Rivals Drama of Movie Version, May 4, 2025. It opens:

The scene opens with a cleric turning up uninvited to a secret meeting of cardinals, declaring his right to join the conclave to elect the next pope. Infighting among cardinals ensues, and dormant scandals are dredged up for political aims.

Wait, you might say, haven’t I seen this movie? It sounds like the intrigue-laden, Oscar-winning film “Conclave,” starring Ralph Fiennes as a cardinal who oversees a papal election beset by rivalries.

Except this is the real-life version. It, too, has an Anglophone prelate, Cardinal Kevin Farrell, an American steering the factious assembly.

There have been whispering campaigns against the front-runners—Cardinal Pietro Parolin, a 70-year-old Italian and career diplomat, and Cardinal Luis Antonio Tagle, 67, of the Philippines. The aim is to make them living proof of a conclave adage: He who enters a pope, leaves a cardinal. 

The article, worth the read in its entirety, goes on:

“Each scene is worth a thousand words,” said Cardinal Michael Czerny, a senior Vatican official…“It supplies everyone else with a whole lot of images, feelings and expressions to appreciate the conclave, which no amount of talking, reading can supply.”…The film’s portrayal of how cardinals go about the business of electing a pope—from the mundane details of cardinals’ dorm life to the Machiavellian maneuverings of conclave factions—isn’t entirely off base. 

Aside from the intrigue and drama inherent in a secret, elaborately choreographed process, why should we care? Carl Trueman, writing for World, the Christian, conservative, news magazine, explains:

The death of Pope Francis has captured the imagination of the wider world and perhaps inevitably raised the question of how Protestants should think about the papacy and the pending election of his successor.  In a sense, the pope has no direct significance for Protestant churches. Our churches have no analogous leadership position...

But the papacy should still be of interest to Protestants and the outcome of this election will have repercussions even for non-Catholics…

Protestantism benefits in several ways from strong and clear papal leadership. First, a vigorously Catholic pope, such as John Paul II or Benedict XVI, makes it easier to see where the points of alignment and the points of disagreement between Catholics and Protestants lie. On things such as the doctrine of God and, given our current sexual and gender chaos, the moral significance of the human body, Protestants have much to learn from Rome. And yet we must not lose sight of the serious differences on things such as the sacraments and the nature of justification that cannot be swept aside as trivia. A pope with a knowledge of, and commitment to, his own church’s theology, will make Protestants think more clearly about the importance of these similarities and differences.

Second, we must remember that the non-Christian world, whether that of the international stage or of our non-Christian neighbor, does not see the importance of doctrinal and ecclesiastical differences as we do. And that means that when they see the head of the largest church body in the world, they see a microcosm of what they consider Christians to be. A pope who is at least clear on basic issues such as gender and human sexuality—indeed, on what it means to be a creature made in God’s image—will benefit us all. Francis spoke with clarity on gender, but his mixed signals on sexuality and equivocal actions on child abuse served to weaken Christian witness across the spectrum.

That leads to a third reason for hoping that the next pope is a man of clear convictions. If the Roman Catholic Church squanders its legacy on questions of ethics, of what it means to be human, and of religious freedom, all churches, including Protestant ones, will suffer. Rome with its public profile and its power, intellectual and financial, provides cover for us all in wider society.

“Rome with its public profile and its power…provides cover for us all in wider society.” That’s why we should care, and therefore pray for the papal selection process.

First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way. (1 Timothy 2.1, 2, ESV)

ALL in high positions, as I wrote on March 21, 2021.

PS Another World Magazine editorial, this one by Andrew T. Walker, makes the same point, closing with:

So yes, Protestants care who the next pope is. Not because we’re returning to Rome but because the West—our shared civilization—desperately needs a moral compass with courage and clarity. We pray, then, not for a pope who flatters the world, but for one who will stand against it in the name of truth. For the good of the shared moral witness. And for the good of the world.

Another Answer to Prayer

We recently participated in the Senior Navigators Celebration with over 200 fellow Navigators aged 65 and older. Many were in their 80s and 90s. A great time.

I presented a workshop called “Lessons from Legos for you…and your grandchildren,” based on my building the Cathedral of Notre Dame.

I wanted to open the workshop with the participants starting the project so they could get a feel for the process. I had copied the instructions for the first 11 steps (of 393 steps!). Now all I needed were the Legos for those steps. No problem…there’s a Lego store in Denver. I’ll just buzz up there and pick them up from the bins. On April 11, two weeks before my presentation on April 29, I discovered that the store did not have a single piece that I needed. “No problem, sir. You can order them from Lego.com.”

So as soon as I got home, I went to Lego.com and ordered the “bricks” that I needed. They don’t offer expedited shipping. About half of my order was from the “best seller” list and “Your order will arrive in 5 days.” The rest come from DENMARK(!) and “…will arrive in 28 days.”

28 days!? I have only 15 days before I leave for the conference. So I wrote to customer service and said I really, really needed those bricks by April 26. They responded right away but said there was nothing they could do. I asked them to please tell the folks in Denmark to at least put me at the top of the queue and ship them quickly.

All I could do at that point was pray. The Lego people couldn’t help me; maybe God could!

The first batch arrived in 5 days as advertised. We were packing the car to leave for the conference on Saturday, April 26, when I went to the mailbox, and THERE IT WAS! An envelope with a customs declaration on it…my Lego bricks. I regret that I forgot to take a picture of the folks assembling the Legos, but they had fun and came up with the observations in the top right picture above.

You do not have because you do not ask. (James 4.2, NKJV)

But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly. (Matthew 6.6, NKJV)

We Will Not Fear

I love the opening of Psalm 46:

God is our refuge and strength, A very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, Even though the earth be removed, And though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea. (Psalm 46.1, 2, NKJV)

And it might be stronger if we stop it here:

God is our refuge and strength, A very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear…

“We will not fear.” Why?

The LORD of hosts is with us; The God of Jacob is our refuge. Selah (Psalm 46.7, 11, NKJV)

Selah just means, “Stop and think about it,” and the verse, with the Selah, appears twice.

Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth! (Psalm 46.10, NKJV)

Be still. There’s no need to loudly voice our fears and our endless complaints. Be still. God is God. The LORD of hosts is with us; The God of Jacob is our refuge. Therefore, we will not fear.

PS A bit of light-hearted trivia tacked on to a serious blog. Please don’t lose the real message: we will not fear. That’s important.

This is not.

When I was a kid, I read in a recreational mathematics book, probably by Martin Gardner, the following (from memory – not a direct quote):

Did you know Shakespeare helped write the King James Version of the Bible? The KJV came out in 1611; therefore, it would have been being written in 1610. In 1610, Shakespeare was 46 years old. If you go to Psalm 46, the 46th word from the beginning is “shake.” Not counting the last Selah, the 46th word from the end is “spear.”

It’s Star Wars Day!

It’s Star Wars Day, May 4, in recognition of the catch phrase from the very first Star Wars movie (now known as Episode 4), 1977, in which the rebellion (the good guys) would encourage each other with “May the Force be with you.”

It’s a day for us to remember our dependence on the real Force: the power of the Holy Spirit.

Just 10 days ago, the US President of The Navigators, Marvin Campbell, challenged us to be:

  • Biblically faithful
  • Holy Spirit fueled
  • Missionally focused

Point #2, of course, is today’s theme. If we’re going to be missionally focused, we need to be Holy Spirit fueled. Jesus told the Twelve the night before his crucifixion:

Nevertheless I tell you the truth. It is to your advantage that I go away; for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you; but if I depart, I will send Him to you. And when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment: of sin, because they do not believe in Me; of righteousness, because I go to My Father and you see Me no more; of judgment, because the ruler of this world is judged. (John 16.7 – 11, NJV)

And right before he ascended, Jesus told them:

But you shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be witnesses to Me in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth. (Acts 1.8, NKJV)

So happy Star Wars Day, but never forget: “May the REAL FORCE be with you.”

What Fuels the Outrage?

I don’t know if I’ll be able to land this plane or not, but I just had a thought about the implications of a typical class of posts on NextDoor. We joined shortly after it started thinking it would be a good way to keep in touch with our neighbors. It could be, I guess, but it’s not used for that. It’s most useful function is helping folks reunite with their lost pets – I helped a neighbor find a runaway cat through NextDoor. Very helpful.

The main use of NextDoor seems to be to complain about whatever is being built. Most recently, folks found out there’s a Dairy Queen going in just north of our nearby KFC. Here are some of the early comments:

The railroad tracks may go through the West side, but the East side [where the Dairy Queen will be] can now claim the dubious distinction of being on the wrong side of the tracks.

I thought my boyfriend was the only one who cared!!!! It will bring him relief that someone else does not want a Dairy Queen “Treat” in Monument 😂😂

Through years of reading posts on NextDoor, it doesn’t matter if it’s a proposed drug rehab facility, a new car wash, or, in this case, a Dairy Queen, a bunch of people will be against it. And they’ll make their position known early and often. It’s really the outrage that I’ve written about before.

It has just occurred to me that the problem is not that people tend to be against something new, but that they think that their opinion about something they can do nothing about matters.

Do Americans have an unhealthy need to control things? Or the misguided perception that we can have things the way we want them?

What if we said, “Oh, a Dairy Queen is going in on Jackson Creek Blvd. That’s interesting,” rather than “A Dairy Queen is going in. Am I for that or against it?” Permits have been approved. Construction is about to begin. I might as well have an opinion about the suitability of the sun rising in the east.

Believers need to be leading the way in contentment…

Do all things without grumbling or disputing, that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world… (Philippians 2.14, 15, ESV)

…and in not worrying about things outside our control…

LORD, my heart is not haughty, Nor my eyes lofty. Neither do I concern myself with great matters, Nor with things too profound for me. (Psalm 131.1, NKJV)

…and in not defaulting to outrage:

Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires. (James 1.19, 20, NLT)

Productive Self Talk

When things aren’t going well, how do you react? How do you talk to yourself? We have some practical instruction in Psalms 42 and 43. Yesterday, we looked at the opening of Psalm 42:

As the deer pants for the water brooks, So pants my soul for You, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When shall I come and appear before God? (Psalm 42.1, 2, NKJV)

Why was his soul thirsting for God? Because he felt like he was in the desert!

My tears have been my food day and night, While they continually say to me, “Where is your God?” When I remember these things, I pour out my soul within me. For I used to go with the multitude; I went with them to the house of God, With the voice of joy and praise, With a multitude that kept a pilgrim feast…I will say to God my Rock, “Why have You forgotten me? Why do I go mourning because of the oppression of the enemy?” As with a breaking of my bones, My enemies reproach me, While they say to me all day long, “Where is your God?” (Psalm 42.3, 4, 9, 10, NKJV)

The feeling of abandonment continues into Psalm 43:

Vindicate me, O God, And plead my cause against an ungodly nation; Oh, deliver me from the deceitful and unjust man! For You are the God of my strength; Why do You cast me off? Why do I go mourning because of the oppression of the enemy? (Psalm 43.1, 2, NKJV)

What’s the solution? It’s right there in Psalms 42 and 43, appearing three times:

Why are you cast down, O my soul? And why are you disquieted within me? Hope in God; For I shall yet praise Him, The help of my countenance and my God.

(Psalm 42.5, 11, 43.5, NKJV)

That needs no further comment.