{"id":9256,"date":"2025-06-23T17:30:00","date_gmt":"2025-06-23T23:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=9256"},"modified":"2025-06-19T07:29:45","modified_gmt":"2025-06-19T13:29:45","slug":"youre-either-one-or-the-other","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=9256","title":{"rendered":"You&#8217;re Either One or the Other"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don&#8217;t usually write about cultural issues or criticize particular news media, but I can&#8217;t resist&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Youre-either-one-other-Ready-set-grow\/dp\/B01K15SNAW\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3D5N5PRFGSM32&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.mMh1yN-l89NXrt1cGlenQdV5ciLjTjghsPoi9RUNovU.w_bWhgYRNbZnUh3gHOAI9wu9WfKPcWBLctzRwAeWfIU&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=Joy+Wilt+one+or+the+other&amp;qid=1750337840&amp;sprefix=joy+wilt+one+or+the+other%2Caps%2C127&amp;sr=8-1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">You&#8217;re Either One or the Other<\/a> is the title of a children&#8217;s book written by Joy Wilt in 1980. I found it while sorting books for our upcoming move. Here is chapter one (one sentence per page, sometimes with pictures):<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>You&#8217;re a person, and because that&#8217;s true&#8230;you&#8217;re either male or female. A male person can be either a boy or a man. A female person can be either a girl or a woman. A boy is a male child. A boy grows up&#8230;and becomes a man. A man is a male adult. A girl is a female child. A girl grow up&#8230;and becomes a woman. A woman is a female adult. So you are either one or the other. Which are you?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The book goes on to describe boys and girls, men and women, using all sort of non-stereotypical examples, such as, &#8220;Some boys like to play sports&#8230;others would rather read books&#8230;some girls like to play sports, but Helen likes to spend her time doing other things.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In short, <strong>You&#8217;re Either One or the Other<\/strong> is a common-sense book that explains the anatomical differences between the sexes as well as celebrates the differences within the sexes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s a common sense book that is now heresy in some circles. Here&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnn.com\/2025\/06\/18\/politics\/supreme-court-upholds-tennessees-ban-on-gender-affirming-care-for-trans-youth?utm_source=cnn_Breaking+News&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;bt_ee=a2bZHkozc%2BHwrIVQu1DLCqllouPeDbCf%2Bn7jBRst9tk%3D&amp;bt_ts=1750256836411\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">CNN&#8217;s breathless headline<\/a> on a recent Supreme Court decision:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>The Supreme Court on Wednesday upheld Tennessee\u2019s ban on gender-affirming care for trans minors in a blockbuster ruling that will bolster efforts by conservative state lawmakers to pass and preserve other divisive laws targeting transgender Americans.<\/em> &#8211; Devan Cole and John Fritze, June 18, 2025<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">  It&#8217;s hard to know where to start&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>It&#8217;s not &#8220;gender-affirming,&#8221; it&#8217;s gender denying<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>It&#8217;s not &#8220;care,&#8221; it&#8217;s harm<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The CNN news article, NOT an editorial, contrasts with a <a href=\"https:\/\/wng.org\/sift\/scotus-upholds-protecting-kids-from-transgender-interventions-1750258049?mkt_tok=NzEwLVFSUi0yMDkAAAGbJmkhnrYHV0WuqB3Mjp19WB7NeKFAs7nHUp6eJVxy8tTJvga9WdNbMUG08v3Sm3JnFh7Mq0nx2pZd5Ajv71THWSzv_23go-IzEmCLXiK1Ae8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">balanced report from World<\/a>, a conservative Christian news magazine that actually quotes people from both sides of the issue. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ironically, the same day this report came out, I received this advertisement from CNN:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Stand with the facts. Your subscription fuels trusted journalism in a time when it matters most.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here&#8217;s the <em>fact <\/em>on this issue:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. (Genesis 1.27, NIV)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t usually write about cultural issues or criticize particular news media, but I can&#8217;t resist&#8230; You&#8217;re Either One or the Other is the title of a children&#8217;s book written by Joy Wilt in 1980. I found it while sorting books for our upcoming move. 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