{"id":8248,"date":"2024-10-18T17:30:00","date_gmt":"2024-10-18T23:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=8248"},"modified":"2024-10-14T17:58:01","modified_gmt":"2024-10-14T23:58:01","slug":"happiness-a-reminder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=8248","title":{"rendered":"Happiness: A reminder"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Too good not to share&#8230;a truth that most of us have seen but need to be reminded of from time to time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sahil Bloom shared this story:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>The 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud lady, who is fully dressed each morning by 8am, with her hair fashionably coifed and makeup perfectly applied, even though she is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, she smiled sweetly when told her room was ready.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of her tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on her window.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#8220;I love it,&#8221; she stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#8220;Mrs. Jones, you haven\u2019t seen the room&#8230;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#8220;That doesn\u2019t have anything to do with it. <\/em><strong><em>Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time<\/em><\/strong><em>.&#8221;\u200d<\/em> &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sahilbloom.com\/newsletter\/the-ludic-fallacy-happiness-as-a-decision-more\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Sahil Bloom, October 11, 2024<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time.&#8221; Abraham Lincoln believed that:<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/drbobewell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/image-13.png?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"474\" height=\"228\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/drbobewell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/image-13.png?resize=474%2C228&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8249\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/drbobewell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/image-13.png?w=900&amp;ssl=1 900w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/drbobewell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/image-13.png?resize=300%2C144&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/drbobewell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/image-13.png?resize=768%2C369&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 474px) 100vw, 474px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I have friends in Alabama, no stranger to hard times, whose answering machine message said something like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>We&#8217;re having a good day at our house, and we hope you&#8217;re choosing to have a good day as well.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The Apostle Paul was in prison when he wrote these words to the Philippians:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now&#8230; (Philippians 1.3 &#8211; 5, NIV)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached. And because of this I rejoice. Yes, and I will continue to rejoice&#8230; (Philippians 1.18, 19, NIV)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#8230;make my joy complete&#8230; (Philippians 2.2, NIV)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>But even if I am being poured out like a drink offering on the sacrifice and service coming from your faith, I am glad and rejoice with all of you. So you too should be glad and rejoice with me. (Philippians 2.17, 18, NIV)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Finally, my brothers, rejoice in the Lord. (Philippians 3.1, ESV)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice. (Philippians 4.4, ESV)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at length you have revived your concern for me. You were indeed concerned for me, but you had no opportunity. Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. (Philippians 4.10, 11, ESV)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Too good not to share&#8230;a truth that most of us have seen but need to be reminded of from time to time. 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