{"id":6468,"date":"2023-09-26T17:30:00","date_gmt":"2023-09-26T23:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=6468"},"modified":"2023-09-22T17:03:51","modified_gmt":"2023-09-22T23:03:51","slug":"a-supportable-rhythm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=6468","title":{"rendered":"A supportable rhythm"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes things come out of my mouth in conversation or letter-writing that might be Spirit-led (I shy away from saying, &#8220;God told me.&#8221;) I&#8217;ve written about two of them:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><em>Walk with God, invest in people, and help them to do the same.<\/em> (<a href=\"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=6306\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">August 19, 2023<\/a>)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Churches usually want to do it bigger and faster instead of smaller and slower.<\/em> (<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=6455\" target=\"_blank\">September 21, 2023<\/a>. It came out in a conversation in response to &#8220;What do you do for The Navigators?&#8221;)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A few days ago, I was having my monthly conversation with Josh, a young man on staff of an international youth ministry. He has professional ministry obligations and also tries to make a contribution in his local church. In addition, he is married with four young children. I remember those days. I told Josh that our kids couldn&#8217;t participate in all the activities some of their friends did. I coached little league, for example, and some of the boys were involved in both baseball AND lacrosse. There&#8217;s no way that our kids could be in multiple activities each. It was not logistically possible. Yet I know some parents who try, and the whole family runs in different directions at breakneck speed. In the middle of that conversation, I told Josh:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>You have an obligation to create a family rhythm that is supportable.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then I said, &#8220;Write that down and send it to me! I&#8217;ve never said it that way before.&#8221; So he did and added, &#8220;It&#8217;s a great quote!&#8221; It&#8217;s fun talking with someone who is teachable. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And the point is a good one. Too often we try to cram in one more thing. In fact, I had an opportunity to apply it to myself before the day was out. My son Mark wanted to take me to a movie, but it would have involved leaving before 4:30p when June had been out on errands all day and was very tired. I told Mark I wasn&#8217;t comfortable leaving that early. So we&#8217;ll do the movie another time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you&#8217;ll recover your life. I&#8217;ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me\u2014watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won&#8217;t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you&#8217;ll learn to live freely and lightly. (Matthew 11.28 &#8211; 30, MSG)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes things come out of my mouth in conversation or letter-writing that might be Spirit-led (I shy away from saying, &#8220;God told me.&#8221;) I&#8217;ve written about two of them: A few days ago, I was having my monthly conversation with Josh, a young man on staff of an international youth ministry. He has professional ministry &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=6468\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">A supportable rhythm<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6468","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8X9bo-1Gk","jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6468","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6468"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6468\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6470,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6468\/revisions\/6470"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6468"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6468"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6468"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}