{"id":5851,"date":"2023-04-24T17:30:00","date_gmt":"2023-04-24T23:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=5851"},"modified":"2023-04-21T16:12:00","modified_gmt":"2023-04-21T22:12:00","slug":"relationships-not-just-decisions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=5851","title":{"rendered":"Relationships, not just decisions"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I read Matthew 9, which includes the call of Matthew, the tax collector, the same day I received an email from a fellow in ministry. As usual, he reported on one of his speaking engagements, including the number of men who indicated they wanted to receive Christ. I&#8217;ve been in such a meeting with this man, who afterward in a newsletter reported on our event and said that eight men wanted to follow Jesus. Eight! I was one of the people in charge of the event, and I don&#8217;t know who those eight men were. No one does. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jesus didn&#8217;t seem to operate that way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>As Jesus passed on from there, he saw a man called Matthew sitting at the tax booth, and he said to him, \u201cFollow me.\u201d And he rose and followed him. (Matthew 9.9, ESV)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;ve already written about the <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=3511\" target=\"_blank\">call of Matthew<\/a>, especially the way it&#8217;s presented in <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.angel.com\/signup\/the-chosen?msclkid=6e361cad25db1d8cf73d7894d012e581\" target=\"_blank\">The Chosen<\/a>. Peter was aghast that Jesus called Matthew. &#8220;This is different!&#8221; he told Jesus. To which Jesus responded, &#8220;Get used to different.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What struck me this time was that when Jesus invited Matthew to join him, he was entering into a relationship with him. He would be rubbing shoulders with a despised tax collector. Just as he was rubbing shoulders with ordinary fishermen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Back to the public speaker in paragraph one. I&#8217;m well aware that traveling speakers (I am one sometimes) can&#8217;t have a personal relationship with everyone in their audience. But, surely when someone allegedly makes a profession of faith, we can do something to connect them with someone local who can have a <em>relationship <\/em>with them. Someone local who will also make sure they have a growing <em>relationship <\/em>with Jesus.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don&#8217;t believe we can disciple people en masse any more than we can teach someone to play the piano by taking them to concerts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you. (John 15.12 &#8211; 15, ESV)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I read Matthew 9, which includes the call of Matthew, the tax collector, the same day I received an email from a fellow in ministry. As usual, he reported on one of his speaking engagements, including the number of men who indicated they wanted to receive Christ. I&#8217;ve been in such a meeting with this &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=5851\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Relationships, not just decisions<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5851","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8X9bo-1wn","jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5851","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5851"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5851\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5854,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5851\/revisions\/5854"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5851"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5851"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5851"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}