{"id":528,"date":"2019-03-04T17:33:40","date_gmt":"2019-03-05T00:33:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=528"},"modified":"2019-03-03T15:34:42","modified_gmt":"2019-03-03T22:34:42","slug":"when-things-dont-go-well","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=528","title":{"rendered":"When Things Don&#8217;t Go Well"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p style=\"text-align:center\" class=\"has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">[To follow <strong><em>The Ewellogy<\/em><\/strong>, please click on <strong><em>Leave a Comment<\/em><\/strong> above, fill in your name and email, and check the box: <strong><em>Notify me of new posts by email<\/em><\/strong>. If your comment is, &#8220;Notify me,&#8221; it won&#8217;t post publicly. If you don&#8217;t start to receive the blog by email right away, please write to me at bob@ewell.com, and I will see that you get on the list.] <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> I was disheartened to hear that Navigator ministry colleagues of mine were leaving a church staff position after less than two years. They had been called to help a church become intentionally disciple-making; they sold their long-time residence and moved across the country. Now, less than two years in, the church has decided they really didn\u2019t want their help.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019ve written before about the <a href=\"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=406\">challenge of church change<\/a>, but today I want to focus on the personal cost to my friends. In addition to the sheer difficulty of moving the older we get, there\u2019s the issue of \u201cWhy, God?\u201d \u201cWhy bring us all the way across the country to not succeed?\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here are a few simple observations which may help us not lose heart when things don\u2019t go quite as we had hoped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>\u201cSuccess\u201d is not always guaranteed. Neither <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Isaiah+6.8+-+12&amp;version=NIV\">Isaiah<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Jeremiah+1%3A4+-+10&amp;version=NIV\">Jeremiah<\/a>, nor <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Ezekiel+2%3A1-7&amp;version=NIV\">Ezekiel<\/a> succeeded in turning the nation.\u00a0<\/li><li>My friends did leave behind \u201cgood seed\u201d in the form of people they discipled. And those people will continue to bear fruit whether in that church or somewhere else.<\/li><li>We don\u2019t know the next chapter in my friends\u2019 story. It may be that where they go next requires them to be in the \u201cneutral\u201d position they are now in.<\/li><li>The bottom line is that we don\u2019t know why things happen the way they do! A principle I discovered years ago in Proverbs 20.24 applies to so many situations. Some of us think that <em>because<\/em> God is in charge and we\u2019re following his direction, <em>everything will make sense<\/em>. In fact, the opposite is true:<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>The Lord directs our steps,\u00a0so why try to understand everything along the way? (Proverbs 20.24, NLT)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The Passion Translation does a nice job:<em>\u00a0It is the Lord who directs your life,\u00a0for each step you take is ordained by God\u00a0to bring you closer to your destiny.\u00a0<\/em><strong><em>So much of your life, then, remains a mystery!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was disheartened to hear that Navigator ministry colleagues of mine were leaving a church staff position after less than two years. They had been called to help a church become intentionally disciple-making; they sold their long-time residence and moved across the country. Now, less than two years in, the church has decided they really &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=528\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">When Things Don&#8217;t Go Well<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-528","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8X9bo-8w","jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/528","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=528"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/528\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":530,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/528\/revisions\/530"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=528"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=528"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=528"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}