{"id":3455,"date":"2021-07-02T17:30:00","date_gmt":"2021-07-02T23:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=3455"},"modified":"2021-06-24T17:03:39","modified_gmt":"2021-06-24T23:03:39","slug":"dont-be-hurtful-encourage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=3455","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t be hurtful &#8211; encourage"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We&#8217;re working through some of the desired characteristics of believers in Ephesians 4, especially those involving putting off and putting on:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\" id=\"block-411f54ef-8095-41d0-b57d-80b0e71c778b\"><li>Don\u2019t lie \u2013 speak truth (verse 25)<\/li><li>Don\u2019t steal \u2013 give (verse 28)<\/li><li>Don\u2019t be hurtful \u2013 encourage (verse 29)<\/li><li>Don\u2019t be bitter \u2013 be kind (verses 31, 32)<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Today, let&#8217;s think about verse 29:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>And never let ugly or hateful words come from your mouth, but instead let your words become beautiful gifts that encourage others; do this by speaking words of grace to help them. (Ephesians 4.29, TPT)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As I&#8217;ve written <a href=\"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=2550\">before<\/a> (and often!), this trait is sadly lacking in our current culture where outrage has become &#8220;America&#8217;s most popular indoor sport.&#8221; Believers should be setting the pace in encouraging communication both in-person and online. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Do everything readily and cheerfully\u2014no bickering, no second-guessing allowed! Go out into the world uncorrupted, a breath of fresh air in this squalid and polluted society. Provide people with a glimpse of good living and of the living God. Carry the light-giving Message into the night&#8230; (Philippians 2.14, 15, MSG)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J<em>oseph, a Levite from Cyprus, whom the apostles called Barnabas (which means \u201cson of encouragement\u201d),&#8230; (Acts 4.36, NIV<\/em>. There&#8217;s power in encouragement. Barnabas parted ways with Paul in order to encourage his nephew, John Mark, to get back into the game (see <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Acts+15%3A36+-+41&amp;version=ESV\">Acts 15.36 &#8211; 41<\/a>). Later, Mark was useful to Paul as well (see <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=2+timothy+4%3A11&amp;version=ESV\">2 Timothy 4.11<\/a>) and left us one of the four gospels.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We&#8217;re working through some of the desired characteristics of believers in Ephesians 4, especially those involving putting off and putting on: Don\u2019t lie \u2013 speak truth (verse 25) Don\u2019t steal \u2013 give (verse 28) Don\u2019t be hurtful \u2013 encourage (verse 29) Don\u2019t be bitter \u2013 be kind (verses 31, 32) Today, let&#8217;s think about verse &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=3455\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Don&#8217;t be hurtful &#8211; encourage<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3455","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8X9bo-TJ","jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3455","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3455"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3455\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3457,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3455\/revisions\/3457"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3455"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3455"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3455"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}