{"id":2449,"date":"2020-08-20T17:30:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-20T23:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=2449"},"modified":"2020-08-20T14:12:37","modified_gmt":"2020-08-20T20:12:37","slug":"iron-sharpens-iron","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=2449","title":{"rendered":"Listening to Advice"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s refreshing when someone responds biblically!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My long-time friend Bob inquired into my health the other day, and I asked how he was doing. He responded with a long story of how he and his wife are caring for her sister from out of state who was involved in an auto accident. The details aren&#8217;t relevant here, but Bob said they were hoping they could get the sister re-certified to drive so she could return home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Never afraid to offer unwanted advice, I wrote something like, &#8220;It&#8217;s none of my business, but is it realistic to try to get someone driving who&#8217;s already had a number of recent accidents?&#8221; I suggested that between her friends and the number of delivery options available these days, maybe she wouldn&#8217;t have to be able to drive to move back home. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most people would have said something like, &#8220;You&#8217;re right. It is none of your business.&#8221; But not Bob. Here&#8217;s what he wrote:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>You make some good points about delivery services.&nbsp; We&#8217;ll have to look into that-plus Uber and Lyft for taking her to the doctors, etc.&nbsp; Your ideas are always welcome-you&#8217;re a brother as well as a friend so you need not ever be concerned about something being your business or not.&nbsp; That&#8217;s not an issue to me&#8211;you can always feel free to speak into my life with your thoughts, ideas, concerns, etc!   <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bob is a wise man; I&#8217;m glad to be his brother and friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>A wise man listens to advice. (Proverbs 12.15, ESV)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another. (Proverbs 27.17, NIV)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>The more wise counsel you follow, the better your chances. (Proverbs 11.14, MSG)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s refreshing when someone responds biblically! My long-time friend Bob inquired into my health the other day, and I asked how he was doing. He responded with a long story of how he and his wife are caring for her sister from out of state who was involved in an auto accident. The details aren&#8217;t &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=2449\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Listening to Advice<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2449","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8X9bo-Dv","jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2449","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2449"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2449\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2457,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2449\/revisions\/2457"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2449"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2449"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2449"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}