{"id":1987,"date":"2020-04-14T17:30:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T23:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=1987"},"modified":"2020-04-07T17:33:03","modified_gmt":"2020-04-07T23:33:03","slug":"expectations-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=1987","title":{"rendered":"Expectations?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here are a few more thoughts about our coronavirus lockdown.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Doug Nuenke, U.S. President of The Navigators, shared with us in a video message some advice from Admiral Stockdale, highest ranking prisoner of war during the Viet Nam war: <strong><em>always have hope, but also always acknowledge the reality of your situation.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That reminded me of something else Admiral Stockdale said. I heard it years ago, and I don&#8217;t know the source, but he was frequently asked, &#8220;Who didn&#8217;t make it out? What were the characteristics of the men who died in captivity?&#8221; Stockdale replied something like this, which I think is applicable to our current coronovirus lockdown:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>That&#8217;s easy. The ones who didn&#8217;t make it out were the optimists. The ones who kept saying, &#8220;We&#8217;ll be home by Christmas. They&#8217;ll let us out by Easter.&#8221; <\/em> <em>Those are the men who died in captivity.<\/em> &#8211;Admiral James Stockdale, POW in Viet Nam for 7 years<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you&#8217;re like me, you&#8217;re hoping for a quick end to all this. I&#8217;m supposed to speak at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.springcanyon.org\/summer-celebration\/\">Spring Canyon<\/a> June 27 &#8211; July 4 (join us!). I&#8217;m praying that it&#8217;ll be business as usual by then. But it might not be. Our governor said he hopes to lift restrictions by April 26, but others are saying don&#8217;t expect normal life for a while. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We will need what Ignatius of Loyola called a <a href=\"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=371\">holy indifference<\/a> to our expectations and schedules.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>You ought to say, \u201cIf it is the Lord\u2019s will, we will live and do this or that.\u201d (James 4.15, NIV)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength. (Philippians 4.12, 13, NIV)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here are a few more thoughts about our coronavirus lockdown. Doug Nuenke, U.S. President of The Navigators, shared with us in a video message some advice from Admiral Stockdale, highest ranking prisoner of war during the Viet Nam war: always have hope, but also always acknowledge the reality of your situation. That reminded me of &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/?p=1987\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Expectations?<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1987","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8X9bo-w3","jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1987","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1987"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1987\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1989,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1987\/revisions\/1989"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1987"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1987"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drbobewell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1987"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}